Friends

Marcel waits at a restaurant while his friend realizes he forgot their plans and says he will arrive in 20 minutes.

I'm not naming any names here, but I was forgotten about! I normally tend to subtly remind people about things we've planned together, but this friend in particular has always been so reliable that I didn't consider it necessary. He apologized profusely, and I actually didn't mind. I spent 20 minutes in the restaurant drawing the other people eating their noodles while sipping on my 0% beer.

Actually, I really enjoyed having something to wait for. Most people in my life are on time, or even a bit early, which means I rarely get the chance to just sit around, watch people, and draw them. I kind of need to figure out a way to do that more often.

Marcel sits on a park bench holding Fritzi while Ines stands nearby with a cup.

These spontaneous walks have become less frequent since Ines moved to a different part of the city, and I miss them. It was great having friends in the neighborhood. Unfortunately, there's no way of finding an apartment anywhere else, so I'm stuck here in my absurdly beautiful Winterhude. Oh well...

Friends play a multiplayer game in which colorful characters explore a wooded landscape and look at a map.

We played Big Walk and had a very stressful but fun evening. We ended up with too many people playing at the same time, and it all got a little too chaotic for my taste. But the game itself is really nice, especially for that price.

Marcel, Mareen, and Nils sit outdoors painting together, with one painting the others instead of the trees.

We met at the park to paint trees. Nils painted Mareen and me instead. Weird choice, but I guess our new outdoor painting club doesn’t benefit from rules that are too strict.

Marcel hangs out with Matti, shares dinner with friends, and plays an escape room with them.

At one point in the escape room, Mareen had to spank us with a leather paddle... it was definitely an experience...

Friends and family celebrate Werner's 40th birthday at a garden party, with a woman holding a baby and a boarding pass displayed.

It was such a lovely day. Everyone was there. So many friends came to Hamburg for the weekend, and we all had a wonderful time.

Marcel wakes up feeling socially drained and skips his workout before celebrating Mareen’s birthday with friends.

I seldom think it’s a good idea to skip my workout for the day. This was one of those exceptions.

Marcel enjoys a gin basil smash and recalls meeting Anna's friends at home.

This is somehow not as shocking to anyone else as it is to me, but how was this cocktail only invented in 2008? We had smartphones then! How did nobody, in all those years before that, think to smash up a bit of basil and throw some random alcohol into it?! It’s absurd!

Marcel and Anna exercise before Marcel hosts a birthday gathering with friends, then he enjoys the day’s leftovers at home.

My journal entry from two years ago (just a classic text-based journal) ended with me promising myself I wouldn’t spend my birthday alone the following year. And I didn’t.

Last year, I invited my friends over on the evening of my birthday, and it was wonderful. Now many of them have babies, so this year I invited them over on Sunday afternoon for coffee and cake instead. It was great.

I went to bed blissful and full of gratitude.

Marcel and his friends eat breakfast, visit Tower Bridge in the heat, and have dinner together in London.

Visiting Tower Bridge while melting wasn’t exactly a highlight of this trip, but I’m glad I saw it.

Marcel walks through Notting Hill with Anna and Johnny, gets yelled at for photographing the street, then has beers with Josh and Rick.

We had quite a social day. Notting Hill is unbelievably beautiful.

Marcel and Florian paint fish in a relaxed painting class.

We were the only ones in the class, and it was more of a “here are the materials, do what you want” kind of deal than anything else.

Marcel and a group of friends enjoy a picnic in the park.

We spent the first of May in the park, having a great old time. It couldn’t have been a better start to the month.

Marcel reacts to a spider in the shower, then meets Ines for coffee.

The spider crossed my “this is fine” boundary and was promptly evicted.

Marcel runs 12 km, then visits a cat exhibition with Mareen.

Give me a run, an exhibition and good company and I'm having a good day.