Relationship

Marcel notices enormous mushrooms, then shares the discovery with Anna by message.

I love that we both noticed the same thing and immediately wanted to share it with each other. It could hardly be a smaller moment, but maybe those are especially important to share, precisely because they can happen all the time.

If you reserve happiness and togetherness for the special occasions, you reduce everything in between to a waiting room. And life is far too long to spend most of it waiting for the highlights.

Deep, I know.

Marcel gives up on a book he finds boring, comparing it to a relationship that did not work out.

Deciding to stop reading a book is an art form in itself. I think many people never get into reading because they haven't found the right book for them and aren't willing to give up quickly enough when one doesn't click. Even I find it difficult, and I've stopped reading dozens of books. There are simply too many good books out there to spend time on ones you don't enjoy. The book in question was A Philosophy of Walking, by the way. It was just... so uninteresting.

Marcel and Anna lie together on a blanket in a park and talk about his new pen.

This is the first drawing in a new sketchbook, and I love how it turned out. Anna and I spent the evening in a park celebrating a milestone in our relationship, and I love that I get to share moments like this with her—that she’s interested in them simply because they matter to me.

I tend to keep things to myself because, I guess, I often feel like no one’s really interested. So putting myself out there by sharing something I don’t even think is that special, and then being met with genuine interest and openness, feels really great.

Marcel waits at a bus stop with a card for Anna, but the bus passes without stopping.

In Germany, we have the saying "Man muss die Feste feiern, wie sie fallen", which loosely translates to "You have to celebrate the good times as they come". We tried. We failed. Oh well.

Busses are the worst kind of public transportation. Change my mind!

Marcel pretends he has not been drawing while painting a robin as a surprise gift for Anna.

I lied to Anna for her own good, because I’d prepared a little gift for her, and her investigative skills were dangerously close to ruining the surprise. Thankfully, I’m apparently a pathological liar, because she didn’t suspect a thing and was very happy to receive this little robin.